Divorce lawyer reveals the four common mistakes couples make

Till death — or divorce — do us part.Although divorce rates are dropping across America, couples are still splitting up every day — sometimes for avoidable reasons.
That’s why divorce lawyer Padideh Jafari, founder and CEO of Jafari Law & Mediation Office, revealed the four common mistakes couples make to Business Insider.She shared the top reasons why she’s seen couples split and her advice to overcome those obstacles.
“Marriage can be a beautiful thing, but it requires work and intention in addition to love,” Jafari said.One of the main reasons why couples separate is that they lose focus on their relationship and put other things — typically their work or kids — ahead of their marriage.
“You absolutely cannot prioritize your career over your marriage,” the expert said, noting that kids also should not come in the way of your relationship.“Of course, you love your children and need to look after their physical and emotional needs, but don’t forget your spouse.”A special date night or holiday getaway with your partner can be a great way to forget your responsibilities and dedicate time to your loved one.
Instagram posts, Facebook albums and TikTok videos keep us connected — but sometimes seeing the highlights of someone’s life and being one click away isn’t great for our relationships.“From reconnecting with old flames to secret messages, social media is fueling modern divorces,” Jafari said.The expert claimed that even taking a peek at a former flame’s social media account is crossing a line.
“Social media makes us think that the grass may be greener somewhere else,” she said.“But as a married person, you should be thinking about your own home — watering and fertilizing your own lawn to make it beautiful alongside your spouse.” As the saying goes, communication is key — but it’s more than that really.
Couples need to not only communicate but also comprehend what their partner is saying.The skilled ...