I opened my relationship so I could sleep with other people now I help my boyfriend find dates, too

It takes two … to fine number three.Model Cami Strella and her partner, Lev Lieben, were in a long-term monogamous relationship, but after two years together, Strella suggested they begin to experiment with other partners.“I wanted to have my cake and eat it, too,” said Strella.She explained that she valued the intimate, emotional connection she had with Lieben, but felt it was important to explore other sexual experiences as well.

“We basically dove headfirst into non-monogamy.”She was excited about exploring her sexuality with others at first — Strella even vacationed in Thailand with one partner — but although it was her idea, she admitted she was apprehensive about sharing her fiancé with other women.“I struggled quite a bit with letting go of the concept of ownership because sex with Lev had been so intimate for me,” she revealed.“But I wanted to explore sex with other men and women, and it was only fair that he got to do the same.”As with any relationship, there have been some bumps in the road, and it took the pair a while to get the hang of their new dynamic.

“There were a lot of misunderstandings in the beginning, and we had a lot of rules,” Strella recalled.“It was a bit weird.”“It’s very normal to feel a bit awkward at first, but once you unbridle yourself from the concept of monogamy, it’s really freeing.”However, the model and influencer explained that honesty was key to making it work.The West Coast-based influencer has 410,000 followers on her Instagram account, @camistrella, and makes up to $220,000 a month sharing racy photos and videos online.

Prior to her current career, Strella was enrolled in a graduate school program studying occupational therapy and neurology, but ended up leaving when her classes went online during the COVID-19 pandemic.The pair met while Strella was pursuing her master’s degree and Lieben was serving in the army.

She said that both she and Lieben are “completely transparent” ...