Dear Abby: I kissed my best friends husband

DEAR ABBY: I’m struggling with my integrity and an important friendship.My friend “Beth’s” husband, “Jerry,” came to my house to help with a construction project.

After discussing the project, we sat down to visit for a bit.He was very forward with me and overly affectionate.

(It’s been 10 years since I’ve had any affection.) He also talked about how affection doesn’t have to “mean anything,” which I believe is true — to an extent.I told him it was inappropriate, but I didn’t stop either of us when Jerry kissed me before leaving.Part of me was thrilled at being kissed again, even though I know it was wrong.

I am sure that I won’t allow it to happen again.I’m afraid to contact him and deliver that message directly, because there’s a chance it wouldn’t be a private message.

I couldn’t tolerate Beth knowing this happened.I treasure her friendship.

I’ve no idea if Jerry said anything to her about what happened.I’m panicked that I may have lost a treasured friend.

Advice? — AFRAID AND WORRIEDDEAR AFRAID: I do have some.If Jerry behaved this way with you, it is likely that he does this with other women who consult him about construction projects.

I don’t think it is necessary for you to inform Beth about what happened, but seriously consider using another construction company for your repairs now and in the future.Jerry appears to be a classic cheater, and you are vulnerable after a long dry spell.DEAR ABBY: My son, “Grant,” who is 37, is autistic.

My ex-wife removed him from a group home five years ago and took him out of the country.I made a mistake years ago by allowing her to have guardianship.

I tried to stop them from leaving.I have had zero communication with my ex or Grant in those five years.My 40-year-old daughter, her three children and her husband live with me.

I have another daughter, age 35, who lives independently.My daughters have been in constant communication with their mother.

My ex comes to the...