Women are ditching alpha males for more emotionally available partners: research

It’s the macho man stereotype that once dominated the world of dating — but it seems that the alpha male has had his day. New research has revealed that 63% of women now prefer a partner who is supportive, emotionally available, and happy to let them take the lead, rather than one who embodies “traditional” masculine values.  In fact, 44% said they would not actively look for an “alpha male” in a partner, according to the study by female-led dating app Chyrpe.Only a few women said they were drawn to traits associated with the stereotype, with just 3% looking for a partner who is controlling, 9% seeking dominance, and 16% prioritizing assertiveness.But despite women turning their backs on alphas, men still feel pressure to live up to what was once viewed as the masculine ideal. Three in ten (35%) admitted facing ridicule from male friends if they don’t take on an alpha role in their relationship, while 37% felt pressured by social media to embody typical characteristics. Experts at Chyrpe – which spotlights female-led relationships as an alternative approach to dating – believe that the study points toward a fundamental shift in relationship dynamics with couples prioritizing communication, trust, mutual respect and individual needs.Gigi Engle, the company’s relationship expert, said: “With 63% of women saying they want supportive, emotionally available men rather than an ‘alpha male’, it’s clear that traditional ideas about attraction are shifting. “Men are often told that they need to be dominant and in control to be desirable, while women are expected to be pursued and happy to let someone else take the lead.“Chyrpe’s data suggests that many women are instead looking for partners who communicate openly, respect their needs and help build a relationship based on mutual fulfilment. “Whether that’s a traditional partnership or a female-led relationship (FLR), the growing trend is clear: women increasingly want the freedom ...