Surprising tactic may be keeping couples sex lives alive, new survey finds
Absence makes the heart grow fonder — and sex drive stronger, a new study finds.A survey of 2,500 Americans conducted by sex wellness brand Lovehoney examined personal sex drives, frequency, and relationship satisfaction.The findings reveal a nation in a sexual slump: More than half of Americans (55%) engage in sex less often than they would like, while a mere 30% report being fully satisfied with their intimate routine.However, an unconventional living arrangement could be the key to reigniting the spark.According to the survey, the highest sex drives belong to people in committed relationships who live apart, averaging a score of 6.58 out of 10 in self-reported sex drive ratings.
That tops cohabitating partners (5.90), married couples (5.76) and singles (5.68).Nearly 73% of non-cohabiting, committed respondents reported experiencing sexual desire multiple times a day.
Still, couples sharing a roof report having sex more frequently overall — likely driven by sheer proximity.If “practical barriers” were removed, 36% of respondents said they would ideally have sex several times a week, while 21% would choose to do it daily.The lifestyle choice — known in relationship jargon as “Living Apart Together” (LAT) — is raved about by couples who claim it increases passion and diminishes boredom.Feelings of longing and missing your partner seem to increase their libido.
Couples who embrace LAT say they see major benefits like heightened excitement and reduced relationship redundancy, according to social psychologist Dr.Samantha Joel.The trend has also taken over TikTok, where creators say living alone is their ultimate secret to relationship longevity.TikTok creator Loran Elise explained to her followers that LAT is tailored for couples who are monogamous and deeply in love, but value personal space.
She and her husband live in separate homes, a move she says fostered individual growth and elevated their bond.She referred to the practice as having your ca...