Dear Abby: My wife doesnt like me visiting my first wifes grave

DEAR ABBY: Yesterday, my wife and I went out to the cemetery to lay some flowers for her brother and father, who passed away many years ago.After we were finished and on our way out, I stopped for a few minutes to check on my first wife’s crypt before returning to the car.

When she asked what I had been doing, I told her I was making sure the plastic flowers were still there.My wife was surprised that I still check on her crypt because she had been gone for more than 16 years. I married my second and current wife 15 years ago.

It was a wonderful marriage — until now.She said her feelings were hurt that I was still checking out the crypt.

She asked me how often I do it, and I told her twice a year.She’s now upset with me.

Was I wrong to pay my respects? My parents’ crypts are nearby, and I check on theirs as well.— STILL CARE IN THE WESTDEAR STILL CARE: Your wife is being childish, and I hope you will point that out to her.

Much as she might wish otherwise, you came to her with a history.(You were, I assume, happily married before your first wife’s death.) Tell “Number Two” that checking on your deceased wife’s crypt isn’t a threat to her unless she chooses to make it so, and that Dear Abby suggests she knock it off before she damages a good thing.DEAR ABBY: Since I was a small boy, silk fabric has always made me feel “safe.” I remember wearing tights in the bathroom in front of the mirror or under my pajamas.

Throughout the years, if nobody was around after work, I continued, but not around my wife, kids or now grandkids.I don’t know why I enjoy them now in my 50s.

Is this OK, or is something wrong with me? Am I missing one can in my six-pack? — SMOOTH AS SILK IN VIRGINIADEAR SMOOTH: I don’t think you are missing anything in your six-pack or anywhere else.Males have been known to wear silk tights because it helps them stay warmer in cold weather.

They have also been known to do it because it feels good next to their skin. I wi...