Brazen bachelor demands sex on second date in jaw-dropping audio message: That made me want to vomit

A young man’s pathetic voice message demanding sex on the second date — or else — has gone viral, with millions of women questioning the state of Gen Z dating.Kelly Cuilty, 26, shared the audio message of the man’s self-absorbed rant on TikTok late June, explaining the recording was sent to her friend. “I had a good time tonight.I definitely think you are lovely,” the man said.

“If we’re gonna go to your place on Thursday, I mean I am looking to have that physical intimacy to see if I am sexually compatible with you.“So if I’m gonna come over, I would be hoping to like, hook up, have sex, have a good time … for my own sake.”He acknowledged that his date was hesitant about sleeping with him while barely knowing him. “My thing is, what would be the point of me coming over then if we’re not gonna hookup and cuddle and be intimate with each other?” He said that it’s “fine” if she isn’t on the same page as him, but then they should just call it off. “First date, it’s fine, we want to get to know each other, I’m all about that.But I am looking to see if that physical aspect is there and I don’t want to continue seeing someone if I don’t know if that’s there or not.”The video garnered 4 million views and sparked an uproar among women who could hardly believe his bold and selfish behavior — amid a dating scene where about 30% of young adults are actively looking for dates, according to the Institute of Family Studies State of Our Unions 2026.  “Second date ultimatum is wild,” one commenter wrote. “He threw ‘cuddle’ in there just for you,” another chimed in. “That made me want to vomit,” one woman wrote, with another adding that “we are clearly on our way to extinction.”“I’ve been single for four years and I feel like I have left a cult,” someone said. ...